Find a Therapist for Narcissism

Medically reviewed by Gabriela Asturias, MD on June 24, 2024
Written by the MiResource team

Navigating life with narcissistic traits—or being diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder—can affect how you relate to others and how you feel about yourself. Working with a skilled therapist for narcissism can help you understand these patterns and begin meaningful change.

  • Alyssa Austern, Psychologist

    Alyssa Austern

    Psychologist

    Remote only

    Alyssa Austern is a Psychologist in Chatham, New Jersey. They treat Narcissism, Personal Growth, Sexual Identity.

    Hello! I'm Dr. Alyssa Austern and I am a clinical psychologist who specializes in couples and family therapy, as well as individual therapy across the lif

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  • Alexandra Vavoulis, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC)

    Alexandra Vavoulis

    Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC)

    3081 Salzedo Street, Coral Gables, Florida 33134

    Alexandra Vavoulis is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC) in Coral Gables, Florida and has been in practice for 5 years. They treat Narcissism, Sexual Assault, Social Anxiety.

    Find clarity, reduce anxiety, and transform your relationships with personalized, compassionate therapy. Navigate life's transitions with support.

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  • Sandra Tursini, Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC)

    Sandra Tursini

    Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC)

    2409 South Rural Road, STE C, Tempe, Arizona 85282

    Sandra Tursini is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Tempe, Arizona and has been in practice for 30 years. They treat Narcissism, Relationship Violence/Stalking/Harassment, End of Life.

    Caring LPC with 30+ years’ expertise in diverse counseling areas, committed to recognizing individual worth and guiding clients through life's challenges

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  • Laura Gualdoni, Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW)

    Laura Gualdoni

    Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), Academy of Certified Social Workers License (ACSW)

    8240 Embury Road, Grand Blanc, Michigan 48439

    Laura Gualdoni is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in Grand Blanc, Michigan and has been in practice for 35 years. They treat Narcissism, College and School Placement, Childhood Abuse.

    If you are struggling to cope with life challenges/difficulties both past & present, I can help you develop the skills and strategies to move forward.

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  • Benitho Louissaint, Advanced Practice Registered Nurse (APRN)

    Benitho Louissaint

    Advanced Practice Registered Nurse (APRN), Nurse Practitioner, Psychiatric Nurse Practitioner

    6197 South Rural Road, Tempe, Arizona 85283

    Benitho Louissaint is a Advanced Practice Registered Nurse (APRN) in Tempe, Arizona. They treat Narcissism, Suicidal Ideation, Trauma.

    We see clients of all genders, ethnicities, and cultures.

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  • Anthony Nichols, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC)

    Anthony Nichols

    Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC), Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC)

    1800 Woodfield Drive, Savoy, IL, USA, Savoy, Illinois 61874

    Anthony Nichols is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC) in Savoy, Illinois and has been in practice for 20 years. They treat Narcissism, Relationship(s) with Parents/Children/Family, Athletic/Sports performance.

    I am a trauma informed counselor that provides a kind space and helps clients overcome past trauma, depression & anxiety to start enjoying their life.

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What is a personality disorder?

A personality disorder is a long-term pattern of thinking, feeling, and behaving that differs significantly from what is culturally expected and causes problems in relationships, work, or self-image. These patterns tend to be stable over time and can feel deeply ingrained.

Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) is one type of personality disorder. It involves a pattern of grandiosity, a need for admiration, and a lack of empathy—but the experience is often more complex than the stereotype suggests.

A narcissistic therapist can help identify whether your behaviors or traits align with this diagnosis and what steps you can take toward growth and healthier relationships.


How do I know if I have narcissism?

You might wonder about narcissism if you’ve been told you’re self-centered, manipulative, or emotionally distant—or if you often feel misunderstood, rejected, or overly sensitive to criticism.

Common experiences include:

  • Needing constant admiration or validation
  • Feeling entitled to special treatment
  • Becoming defensive or angry when criticized
  • Struggling to empathize with others' feelings
  • Wanting to be seen as successful or superior, even if it means exaggerating
  • Difficulty maintaining close, mutual relationships

At the same time, people with narcissistic traits often experience insecurity, shame, or deep sensitivity to perceived rejection.

Working with a therapist specializing in narcissism can help you explore these patterns without judgment and identify whether narcissism is part of your experience.


What causes narcissism?

Narcissistic traits typically develop from a mix of early experiences, temperament, and environment. Common contributing factors include:

Childhood experiences:

  • Overpraising or excessive focus on achievements
  • Neglect or emotional invalidation
  • Inconsistent caregiving (alternating between idealization and criticism)
  • High expectations without emotional support

Psychological and social factors:

  • Low self-esteem masked by grandiosity
  • Coping with shame, insecurity, or a deep need for approval
  • Cultural or social influences that overvalue status and appearance

Understanding the roots of narcissism helps move the conversation away from blame and toward healing. Counseling for narcissism often involves exploring early relational dynamics and developing new ways to meet emotional needs.


Can people with narcissism feel empathy or love?

Yes—many people with narcissistic traits are capable of empathy and love, but they may struggle to express it consistently or recognize others’ needs in the moment.

They might:

  • Care deeply about loved ones but feel overwhelmed by vulnerability
  • Confuse control with care
  • Have difficulty seeing situations from another person’s perspective
  • Interpret others’ emotions as criticism or rejection

Therapy helps strengthen emotional awareness and interpersonal skills. A skilled therapist for narcissism can support this growth without reinforcing shame or defensiveness.

Find care for Narcissism

Remember, recovery is possible. With early intervention, a supportive network, and the right professional care, you can overcome the challenges of Narcissism and build a fulfilling life. We are here to help you find care.

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