Find an Infidelity Therapist

Medically reviewed by Gabriela Asturias, MD on June 24, 2024
Written by the MiResource team

Whether you’ve been betrayed or you’re the one who crossed the line, infidelity can shake a relationship to its core. The pain, confusion, and loss of trust can feel overwhelming. But healing is possible. With the help of a skilled infidelity therapist, many couples and individuals find clarity, closure, and—sometimes—reconnection.

  • Monik Lopez, Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC)

    Monik Lopez

    Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC)

    1550 Madruga Avenue, Coral Gables, Florida 33146

    Monik Lopez is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) in Coral Gables, Florida and has been in practice for 15 years. They treat Infidelity, Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), Relationship(s) with Partner/Husband/Wife.

    The most important relationship you will ever have is the one you have with yourself. If you’re struggling, we’re here to help! Call me anytime

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  • Sandra Tursini, Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC)

    Sandra Tursini

    Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC)

    2409 South Rural Road, STE C, Tempe, Arizona 85282

    Sandra Tursini is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Tempe, Arizona and has been in practice for 30 years. They treat Infidelity, Substance Use, Men's Issues.

    Caring LPC with 30+ years’ expertise in diverse counseling areas, committed to recognizing individual worth and guiding clients through life's challenges

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  • Stephen Barlow, Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC)

    Stephen Barlow

    Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC)

    5540 Falmouth Street, Richmond, Virginia 23230

    Stephen Barlow is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Richmond, Virginia. They treat Infidelity, Panic, Trauma.

    I help people overcome anxiety, depression, and stress stemming from relationships or past experiences, in individual or couples counseling.

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  • SoCorro Miles, Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW)

    SoCorro Miles

    Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), Licensed Clinical Social Worker Associate (LCSWA), Psychotherapist, Counselor, Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC)

    211 East Six Forks Road, Raleigh, North Carolina 27609

    SoCorro Miles is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in Raleigh, North Carolina and has been in practice for 13 years. They treat Infidelity, Loneliness/Isolation, Infidelity.

    At Solace we think therapy truly works when you are truly Seen and Heard. Stop the suffering and give us a try.

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  • Annie Seier, Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW)

    Annie Seier

    Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW)

    Remote only

    Annie Seier is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in undefined, undefined and has been in practice for 20 years. They treat Infidelity, Relationship Violence/Stalking/Harassment, Women's Issues.

    I welcome and affirm clients of all identities and backgrounds in my practice.

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  • Samuel Macy, Psychotherapist

    Samuel Macy

    Psychotherapist, Psychologist

    1111 Chicago Ave, Oak Park, Illinois 60302

    Samuel Macy is a Psychotherapist in Oak Park, Illinois and has been in practice for 10 years. They treat Infidelity, Social Anxiety, Anger Issues.

    With an appreciation for the many facets of identity that shape each person’s worldview, I offer an engaging and culturally-informed approach to therapy.

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What is infidelity counseling and how can it help after cheating?

Infidelity counseling is a form of therapy that helps individuals or couples navigate the emotional, relational, and psychological impact of cheating. It’s not just about rehashing the betrayal—it’s about understanding what happened, making sense of the pain, and finding a way forward—whether together or apart.

In counseling for infidelity, you can expect support with:

  • Processing overwhelming emotions like shock, anger, shame, or grief
  • Understanding the root causes of the affair
  • Exploring whether and how trust can be rebuilt
  • Clarifying personal and relational boundaries
  • Making informed, non-reactive decisions about the future

A good infidelity therapist won't take sides. Their goal is to help you understand what happened, why, and what needs to happen next for healing—on either side of the betrayal.


Can a relationship truly recover after an affair?

Yes—many relationships can recover after infidelity, but it’s rarely easy or fast. Rebuilding trust, intimacy, and communication takes time and commitment from both partners.

Couples who recover successfully often:

  • Take full accountability (especially the partner who cheated)
  • Commit to transparency and honesty moving forward
  • Learn to process—not suppress—emotions like grief and anger
  • Explore the deeper dynamics of the relationship (not just the affair)
  • Use infidelity counseling as a safe container for rebuilding trust

Recovery doesn’t always mean reconciliation. For some, healing means ending the relationship with closure and dignity. For others, it means rebuilding something stronger than before—with better tools and deeper connection.


How do therapists help rebuild trust after infidelity?

Rebuilding trust after cheating isn’t about quick fixes or promises—it’s about consistency, transparency, and emotional accountability.

A skilled infidelity therapist will help couples:

  • Establish safe, open dialogue about what happened
  • Identify the conditions and vulnerabilities that contributed to the affair
  • Set clear expectations and boundaries for moving forward
  • Practice emotional repair, empathy, and responsiveness
  • Address ongoing behaviors like secrecy, blame, or avoidance

Trust isn’t restored in a moment—it’s rebuilt through repeated actions, honest reflection, and therapeutic support.


Should we go to therapy together or individually after cheating?

It depends. Both individual and couples counseling can be helpful, and many people benefit from a combination of the two.

  • Couples therapy helps both partners process the betrayal together, explore what went wrong, and begin healing relational dynamics.
  • Individual therapy offers space to work through personal emotions, history, guilt, or trauma that may be too raw for joint sessions.

Often, therapists recommend beginning with individual sessions—especially if emotions are highly volatile—then transitioning to counseling for infidelity as a couple when both partners feel ready.

Find care for Infidelity

Remember, recovery is possible. With early intervention, a supportive network, and the right professional care, you can overcome the challenges of Infidelity and build a fulfilling life. We are here to help you find care.

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