Find a BPD Therapist

Medically reviewed by Gabriela Asturias, MD on June 24, 2024
Written by the MiResource team

Living with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD) can feel like a constant emotional rollercoaster. If intense mood swings, unstable relationships, or a fear of abandonment are interfering with your life, working with a qualified BPD therapist can help you find relief, stability, and real progress.

  • Nikki Moorman, Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC)

    Nikki Moorman

    Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC)

    5409 Gateway Centre Boulevard, Flint, Michigan 48507

    Nikki Moorman is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Flint, Michigan and has been in practice for 7 years. They treat Borderline Personality Disorder, Women's Issues, Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD).

    I offer a warm and non-judgmental environment so my clients will feel comfortable to explore emotions, concerns, and other issues impacting their lives.

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  • Alyssa Austern, Psychologist

    Alyssa Austern

    Psychologist

    Remote only

    Alyssa Austern is a Psychologist in Chatham, New Jersey. They treat Borderline Personality Disorder, Disruptive, Impulse-Control, and Conduct Disorders, Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD).

    Hello! I'm Dr. Alyssa Austern and I am a clinical psychologist who specializes in couples and family therapy, as well as individual therapy across the lif

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  • Michelle Litwer, Psychologist

    Michelle Litwer

    Psychologist

    Remote only

    Michelle Litwer is a Psychologist in undefined, undefined and has been in practice for 8 years. They treat Borderline Personality Disorder, Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), Personality Disorders.

    My main objective is to help clients manage their emotions, make decisions that are line with their values, and to live fulfilling and meaningful lives.

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  • Alexandra Vavoulis, Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC)

    Alexandra Vavoulis

    Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC)

    3081 Salzedo Street, Coral Gables, Florida 33134

    Alexandra Vavoulis is a Licensed Clinical Mental Health Counselor (LCMHC) in Coral Gables, Florida and has been in practice for 5 years. They treat Borderline Personality Disorder, Binge-Eating Disorder, Sexual Assault.

    Find clarity, reduce anxiety, and transform your relationships with personalized, compassionate therapy. Navigate life's transitions with support.

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  • Sandra Tursini, Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC)

    Sandra Tursini

    Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC)

    2409 South Rural Road, STE C, Tempe, Arizona 85282

    Sandra Tursini is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Tempe, Arizona and has been in practice for 30 years. They treat Borderline Personality Disorder, Drug Use, Phobia.

    Caring LPC with 30+ years’ expertise in diverse counseling areas, committed to recognizing individual worth and guiding clients through life's challenges

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  • William Alkhoury, Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC)

    William Alkhoury

    Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC)

    4700 South Mill Avenue, Tempe, Arizona 85282

    William Alkhoury is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Tempe, Arizona and has been in practice for 8 years. They treat Borderline Personality Disorder, Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), Grief and Loss.

    Discovering Meaning And A Life Worth Living

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What are personality disorders?

Personality disorders are long-standing patterns of thinking, feeling, and behaving that differ from what’s expected culturally—and that cause difficulty in relationships, work, or day-to-day life.

They are not flaws or personal failures. They reflect deeply rooted emotional patterns that developed over time—often as a response to early life experiences. Borderline Personality Disorder, one of the most well-known personality disorders, involves extreme emotional sensitivity, impulsivity, and fear of rejection or abandonment.

A borderline personality disorder therapist can help you understand these patterns and build healthier ways of coping.


How do I know if I have borderline personality disorder?

If you often feel like your emotions are too big, too fast, or completely out of control—and it’s affecting your relationships—you might be wondering whether you have BPD.

You might have BPD if:

  • You experience intense, fast-changing emotions that feel overwhelming
  • Your relationships tend to be unstable or filled with conflict
  • You fear abandonment or rejection, even in small situations
  • You act impulsively—through spending, eating, self-harm, or substance use
  • You feel unsure of who you are or what you believe
  • You often feel empty or numb
  • You sometimes feel paranoid, dissociated, or out of touch with reality when stressed

Only a licensed therapist for borderline personality disorder can diagnose you—but recognizing these patterns is the first step toward healing.


What causes borderline personality disorder?

BPD is complex and has no single cause. It usually develops from a combination of genetics, temperament, and early life experiences.

Common contributing factors include:

  • Trauma or neglect in childhood
  • Emotional invalidation, such as caregivers who dismissed your feelings or made love conditional
  • Family instability or mental illness in the home
  • Biological sensitivity to emotions or stress
  • Attachment disruptions (e.g., inconsistent caregivers or early abandonment)

None of these experiences mean you’re broken—they simply shape how you learned to protect yourself. In therapy for borderline personality disorder, you’ll explore where these patterns began and learn how to replace them with safer, more effective coping tools.


Can borderline personality disorder be treated?

Yes. While BPD has a reputation for being difficult to treat, many people improve significantly with the right therapy. It’s not easy—but it is absolutely possible to feel better, think more clearly, and have healthier relationships.

With consistent support and a therapist who understands the condition, people with BPD often experience:

  • Fewer emotional outbursts
  • Better relationship skills
  • More stable sense of identity
  • Increased self-worth
  • Improved mood regulation
  • Less impulsive behavior

The earlier you start, the better the outcomes—but it’s never too late.

Find care for Borderline Personality Disorder

Remember, recovery is possible. With early intervention, a supportive network, and the right professional care, you can overcome the challenges of Borderline Personality Disorder and build a fulfilling life. We are here to help you find care.

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