Find an Infertility Therapist

Medically reviewed by Gabriela Asturias, MD on June 24, 2024
Written by the MiResource team

Struggling to conceive or cope with pregnancy loss can feel isolating, painful, and overwhelming. When your dreams of growing a family collide with medical challenges, the emotional toll can affect every part of your life. Whether you're facing fertility treatments, miscarriage, or difficult decisions about next steps, infertility therapy offers support, guidance, and healing. You don't have to navigate this alone.

  • Monik Lopez, Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC)

    Monik Lopez

    Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC)

    1550 Madruga Avenue, Coral Gables, Florida 33146

    Monik Lopez is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) in Coral Gables, Florida and has been in practice for 15 years. They treat Infertility, Relationship(s) with Partner/Husband/Wife, Social Anxiety.

    The most important relationship you will ever have is the one you have with yourself. If you’re struggling, we’re here to help! Call me anytime

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  • Michelle Litwer, Psychologist

    Michelle Litwer

    Psychologist

    Remote only

    Michelle Litwer is a Psychologist in undefined, undefined and has been in practice for 8 years. They treat Infertility, Perfectionism, Peer Difficulties.

    My main objective is to help clients manage their emotions, make decisions that are line with their values, and to live fulfilling and meaningful lives.

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  • Sandra Tursini, Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC)

    Sandra Tursini

    Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC)

    2409 South Rural Road, STE C, Tempe, Arizona 85282

    Sandra Tursini is a Licensed Professional Counselor (LPC) in Tempe, Arizona and has been in practice for 30 years. They treat Infertility, Anorexia Nervosa, Sexual Identity.

    Caring LPC with 30+ years’ expertise in diverse counseling areas, committed to recognizing individual worth and guiding clients through life's challenges

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  • Ayeh Darvishzadeh, Psychiatrist

    Ayeh Darvishzadeh

    Psychiatrist

    Remote only

    Ayeh Darvishzadeh is a Psychiatrist in undefined, undefined. They treat Infertility, Dependent Personality, Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD).

    I am a psychiatric physician welcoming people seeking to improve their mental health with medications and therapy options.

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  • SoCorro Miles, Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW)

    SoCorro Miles

    Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW), Licensed Clinical Social Worker Associate (LCSWA), Psychotherapist, Counselor, Licensed Clinical Marriage and Family Therapist, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT), Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC)

    211 East Six Forks Road, Raleigh, North Carolina 27609

    SoCorro Miles is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW) in Raleigh, North Carolina and has been in practice for 13 years. They treat Infertility, Perfectionism, Polyamorous relationship.

    At Solace we think therapy truly works when you are truly Seen and Heard. Stop the suffering and give us a try.

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  • Rachelle Jean-Louis, Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC)

    Rachelle Jean-Louis

    Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC)

    Remote only

    Rachelle Jean-Louis is a Licensed Mental Health Counselor (LMHC) in undefined, undefined and has been in practice for 15 years. They treat Infertility, Infertility, Social Anxiety.

    “We Restore your Mind for a Peaceful Tomorrow.”

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What is infertility therapy and how can it help?

Infertility therapy is a specialized form of counseling that supports individuals and couples experiencing fertility-related challenges. These may include:

  • Difficulty conceiving (primary or secondary infertility)
  • Pregnancy loss or recurrent miscarriage
  • The emotional toll of fertility treatments (IVF, IUI, etc.)
  • Decisions about donor conception, surrogacy, or adoption
  • Navigating relationship strain due to fertility stress
  • Coping with grief, shame, or loss of identity

A licensed infertility therapist provides emotional support, psychoeducation, and practical tools to help you cope with the uncertainty, grief, and stress that often accompany the fertility journey. Therapy can also help you process your hopes and fears, navigate tough decisions, and feel less alone.


When should someone consider seeing a therapist for infertility?

You don’t need to wait for a crisis to seek support. Consider counseling for infertility if:

  • You feel emotionally overwhelmed, hopeless, or isolated
  • Fertility struggles are causing conflict in your relationship
  • You’re navigating medical decisions that feel confusing or distressing
  • You’ve experienced pregnancy loss or failed treatment cycles
  • You feel consumed by anxiety, shame, guilt, or grief
  • Social events (baby showers, announcements) trigger emotional pain
  • You’re considering ending fertility treatment or changing your path to parenthood

Therapy offers a space where you don’t have to pretend you’re okay. You can be vulnerable, confused, angry, or grieving—and receive compassionate support every step of the way.


How does infertility affect mental health and relationships?

Infertility is not just a medical condition—it’s a profound emotional experience. Many people describe it as a grief that repeats month after month, often silently. The emotional effects can include:

  • Depression and anxiety
  • Shame or guilt about not being able to conceive
  • Anger or jealousy toward others who are pregnant
  • Emotional distancing from friends or family
  • Struggles with identity and self-worth

In relationships, infertility can lead to:

  • Increased stress and communication breakdowns
  • Disagreements about next steps (when to seek help, whether to stop)
  • Differences in how each partner grieves or copes
  • Sexual disconnect due to performance pressure or sadness

Infertility therapy provides a supportive space to process these feelings, improve communication, and stay connected as a couple through an emotionally taxing time.


Is it normal to feel grief, shame, or anger during fertility struggles?

Yes—these feelings are completely normal and valid. Grief may stem from the loss of a pregnancy, a future you imagined, or a sense of control over your life. Shame can arise from internalized beliefs about what it means to be a parent or “successful.” Anger might target your body, your partner, or a system that feels unfair.

The pain of infertility is real—even if others don’t see or understand it. Therapy helps you name and process these emotions without judgment. You don’t have to carry the weight alone.

Find care for Infertility

Remember, recovery is possible. With early intervention, a supportive network, and the right professional care, you can overcome the challenges of Infertility and build a fulfilling life. We are here to help you find care.

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