Toby Carver
(He/Him/His)
Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT)
My role as a therapist is to walk alongside you and curiously look at your story.
Not to change the past but understand it with a perspective of how your past makes you who you are right now. I do not do this from a sanitized, clinical, or "distant" perspective, but as someone who has been in the trenches; the space I create is one of knowing and of safety. If compelled to do so, reach out so we can begin the process of re-authoring your story to create a new narrative you can call your own. My narrative includes a 19-year marriage and two adventurous children. I have served in the Marine Corps, and I have been in the IT industry for 20 years prior to transitioning into marriage and family therapy.
Practice hours (CST)
Areas of focus
Areas of expertise
- Abuse
- Alcohol Use
- Anger Issues
- Anxiety
- Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD)
- Avoidant Personality
- Bipolar Disorder
- Borderline Personality
- Burnout
- Career
- Childhood Abuse
- Cognitive Functioning
- Conflict Resolution
- Dependent Personality
- Depression
- Divorce
- Drug Use
- Eating Concerns
- Gaming/Internet Concerns
- Gender Identity
- Grief and Loss
- Hoarding
- Infidelity
- Insomnia
- Intimacy Concerns
- Learning Disorder
- Life Transitions
- Loneliness/Isolation
- Men's Issues
- Narcissistic Personality
- Obsessive Compulsive Disorder (OCD)
- Obsessive-Compulsive Personality
- Panic
- Paranoid Personality
- Parenting Concerns
- Peer Difficulties
- Perfectionism
- Personal Growth
- Personality Disorders
- Phobia
- Physical Assault
- Physical Stress
- Polyamorous relationship
- Posttraumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)
- Racial Identity
- Racial/Cultural Oppression or Trauma
- Relationship Violence/Stalking/Harassment
- Relationship(s) with Friends/Roommates
- Relationship(s) with Parents/Children/Family
- Relationship(s) with Partner/Husband/Wife
- School Concerns
- Self-Esteem
- Self-Harm
- Sex Addiction/Pornography Concerns
- Sexual Assault
- Sexual Concerns
- Sexual Identity
- Sleep Concerns
- Social Anxiety
- Spiritual/Religious Concerns
- Substance Use
- Suicidal Ideation
- Trauma
- Work/Life Balance
Age groups
- Young adults (18-30)
- Adults (31-64)
- Seniors (65 or older)
Special groups
- Active duty military
- Clients from the court/judicial system
- Neurodivergent people
- People in the foster care system
- People of color
- People who are bisexual
- People who identify as gay
- People who identify as lesbian
- People who identify as non-binary
- People who identify as queer
- People with disabilities
- People with HIV or AIDS
- Transgender
- Veterans
Treatment specialties
Therapeutic modalities
- Assessment/Evaluation
- Behavior Modification
- Couples Therapy
- Family Therapy
- Individual Therapy
Treatments
- Attachment-Based Therapies
- Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) Coaching
- Brief Psychodynamic Psychotherapy
- Behavior Therapy
- Constructivist
- Existential Psychotherapy
- Experiential Psychotherapy
- Faith-Based Therapy
- Gestalt Therapy
- Humanistic Therapy
- Internal Family Systems Therapy
- Motivational Interviewing
- Object Relations Therapy
- Person-Centered Therapy
- Process-Oriented Psychology
- Psychoanalysis
- Psychodynamic Therapy
- Narrative Therapy
- Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)
- Anger Management
- Family Systems Therapy
Location
Accommodations
Entering the practice
- Well-lit path to entrance
- Step-free entry
- Flat path to the front door
- Service animals allowed
- Disabled parking spot (8ft / 2.4m)
Payment options
$65 — $200per session
Insurance
In-network coverage provided for the following insurance companies
- Aetna – Kansas
- Blue Cross Blue Shield – Kansas
- KanCare – Kansas
- Out-of-pocket
- Sliding scale
- In-network insurance
Payment methods
- Cash
- Credit Card
- Flexible Spending Account
- Health Savings Account
- Online
- Other
- Venmo
Credentials
Licenses
LMFT
KSBSRB
03337, Kansas
LCMFT
KSBSRB
02890, Kansas
Education
Friends University
Master of Science in Family Therapy, 2021
DeVRY Institute
BS (Bachelor of Science), 1999